How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 01.07.2025 02:35

How does one succeed in life?

Hangs out with loser friends.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Which country has the best and strictest legal system in the world?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Procrastinates a lot.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

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How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Does not procrastinate.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

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Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

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Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

That's it for today.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.